Table Group Guide
The Kingdom Stuff
4. Redefining Greatness
Table purpose statement (Share at the start or before the Discovery section):
This group exists for the purpose of discipleship. A disciple is someone who loves and obeys Jesus. (John 14:15) That means our focus is hearing from God and taking steps of faith. Our goal is to multiply another healthy Table. One day, some of you will lead a group like this!
Table Talk (⅓ of meeting)
- Icebreaker: What’s a song that makes you instantly relax?
- What are you thankful for this week? What’s stressing you out?
- Where is God at work in your life?
- Worship God through song. Recommended: The Simple Kingdom by Cody Carnes.
Discussion Guidelines
- Everyone shares in sentences, not paragraphs.
- Focus only on what this passage is saying. (This keeps everyone on the same page)
- Share from your perspective – we won’t argue or give advice.
- Give everyone time to respond. Silence is OK.
- The facilitator will facilitate discussion, not teach.
Discover what God is saying to you. (⅓ of meeting)
Read Mark 9:30-37. Read it in two translations if time permits.
- What part of this scripture makes the biggest impression on you?
- How does our culture define greatness? How is Jesus’ definition different?
- Why do you think Jesus used a child to illustrate humility?
- What does it practically look like to be "last of all" in your workplace, family, or community? Who is
someone you know that lives like that? - We naturally pursue what we want, but following Jesus means we put others' needs before our
wants. Share a time when that created a conflict. What happened?
Go do it. (⅓ of meeting)
- What’s a simple step you can take this week to let go of your agenda and serve others?
- How is God prompting you to serve in or outside the church?
- Pray for the Empty Chair. Place hands on an empty chair in the circle and ask God to fill
it with someone who needs to be here next week. Plan a low-key hangout to make for an easy
invitation!

